~Memoirs Of Nic Da Nic~

Baby dumping is one of the hottest issued being discussed by the nation and I am sure including most of the people who concern about this issue.Well yesterday I when reading the news, I saw an article "P0rn a major reason behind the baby dumping" . Up to August, there were up to 65 babies found. And back to the statistics, 472 babies were found since 2005. This shows a very dramatical issue to the nation. How can we be so cruel just because of our lack of control of lust. What I can read today is we are blaming on one of the cause but we forgotten all the other causes of the problem.Why not we blame the parents? Why we never blame the law? Why we never blame the society for lack of morality? All these are possible? But which one is the major causes?

The Star Online 18/8/2010 -Baby found at doorstep

We can still see baby dumping issues happening everyday and it reaches the alarming rate but yet we don't really know the causes of the problems. So,should we blame on p0rn as the major reason behind the scenario of baby dumping? I agree partially because perhaps that's one of the factor but not the real factor that they are coping with. I'm not writing to support p0rn. I didn't say anything about supporting. in my opinion, I'm straight forward and I will say baby dumping is because of lack of moral value of the society that being so inhumane to throw the baby outside the mosque, toilet, doorstep, on the road, dustbin and everywhere that they want. Aren't they are cruel? Since they can be so cruel, they can be cruel to anyone else. Strict law enforcement should be made in order to stop this unethical behavior of the society.Not just blaming on one major problem which is P0rn because that's just a subset of causes of everything. There are a lot of people who has easy access and exposed to p0rn but not commited in the baby dumping and premarital pregnancies. Again, we cannot just point all our fingers to one of the causes. These is just going to solve partial of the problem which block the access to p0rnographic materials via internet but still we can really solve the problem. Blame the person who dump the baby by not controling the lust. If they can't afford to feed the child, so you throw them away? Then think about why they can't control their lust at first? Secondly, we are still lack of sex education and what the teenagers should learn is not just how to prevent pregnancy, how to make things safe and but also make them aware of the consequences of making mistakes in life. Not just talk about biologically how to produce a baby, but the teacher should discuss about the currrent issue on lack of awareness amongst teenagers.The law enforced is not strict enough for me to be scared off. Hukuman sebatan and jail is too common and I can see the law is weak. Why can't a law which is as strict as the drug acts which enforced by the government to solve the current situation. The people who dump the baby might be dead. Isn't that a serious crime and should be called as a murderer? Can we use something similar to the act for the crime that we cannot forgive? When you contain any dangerous drug, you are going to be hanged. When you dump a baby, you are going to face the same consequences. If I write it too long, you guys will be sleeping while reading it, it sounds boring to everyone else, but I really put some effort to tell you guys, I am very sad when I see baby dumped everywhere. We shall show more humanity on this and I can see many NGO's is helping hand to solve this issue.  I explained most of the causes that might be the causes of baby dumping. Therefore, we shall not blame one causes to cover up everything.